Saves time
No more waiting months to see the truth.
Spot the patterns sooner. Reflect. Break the cycle.
Dating often feels like déjà vu. The same stories, the same disappointments, the same hidden red flags you only notice too late.
Red Flags? helps you spot those patterns faster, in hours instead of months. It also builds awareness — of them, of yourself, and of what truly matters to you.That awareness helps you break old cycles and grow through each experience.
And whether you choose to continue with someone or decide to walk away, you’ll leave with more clarity about yourself and the relationships you want to build and be in.
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WHY IT MATTERS
At the start of dating, almost everyone shows their best side. Weeks or months later, the real patterns start to show — how they handle conflict, how they process emotions, what they believe about commitment. By then, you’ve already invested time, energy, and heart.
Red Flags? speeds that process up. It brings those patterns to the surface earlier, giving you the chance to notice what feels aligned with you, and what doesn’t.
Because not every red flag means “run away”, and not every green flag means “all clear”. Some things fall in the middle. These purple flags might be fine for one person and a dealbreaker for another. What matters is whether they’re aligned with who you are and the kind of relationship you want.
HOW IT WORKS
- Draw a card.
- Each one touches on something that really matters in dating — from self-awareness to intimacy to values.
- Ask the question.
- Share openly and invite your date to do the same.
- Listen closely.
- Notice not only the words, but also the reaction.
- Scan the QR code (or tap the button in the digital version).
- Unlock the deeper content — a way to decode each other’s answers with more clarity.
- Read the Beneath the Answer section.
- This explains what their answers might mean in a healthy relationship, showing you examples of red, green, and purple flag answers so you can interpret what was actually said.
- Reflect together.
- Sit with your answers, notice patterns, and take the insight as a chance to grow — whether together or on your own.
- Switch turns.
- The other player draws the next card, and the cycle continues.
WHAT’S INSIDE
100 questions, 10 volumes, one purpose: to reveal what really shapes love and connection. From self-awareness and emotional availability to intimacy, values, history, and playfulness, each volume shines a light on the patterns that often stay hidden for months.
These questions go far beyond small talk. They give you a framework to understand how someone shows up in relationships — and how you do too. Every conversation becomes a chance to notice alignment, misalignment, and what truly matters to you.
CLARITY EITHER WAY
Most dating games are icebreakers. Red Flags? is a cycle-breaker. No matter where the date goes, you walk away with insight, growth, and clarity.
Builds self-awareness
Sometimes the red flag is ours to reflect on.
Brings clarity
So you stop repeating the same patterns.
WHO IT’S FOR
If you’re ready to stop repeating cycles and start choosing with clarity, Red Flags? is for you.
Singles
Tired of investing long periods of time on the wrong people.
Intentional daters
Want awareness, not just small talk in a unusual format.
Couples
Curious to explore deeper compatibility.
It won’t tell you who’s right or wrong. Instead, it creates the kind of conversations where truth shows up sooner — so you can notice it, reflect on it, and choose what’s right for you.